"The future is no more uncertain than the present." ~ Walt Whitman

Recently, a friend of mine died. I do not say "passed away", because that would be to obscure the suddenness, unexpectedness, and abruptness of the situation. Her memorial service was today; it was my first experience attending a service as an individual, and not accompanied by my family. Fortunately, I soon encountered the company of fellow friends. We have all been stricken by abruptness. My feelings at a time like this I have kept private, and will keep private except to those friends who are also grieving. I heard the stories of my friend's family members and companions, and although they made me smile, they made me cry more for a loss which becomes greater with the revelation of each person's sadness and individual heartache. I wish that I could have gotten to know my friend better, because of the uniqueness of her spirit.

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